Beauty in Battle Podcast
Beauty in Battle is a high-energy conversation for married couples to help you energize your relationship, give you purpose, and draw you close to your spouse by turning the tension that divides you into energy that fuels you. In this podcast, Jason and Tori Benham share the stories of their relationship and the practical ways they turned conflict and quarrels into passion and purpose by leaning into their struggles rather than trying to avoid them. As a result, they discovered that fighting together drew them together. Their message is clear - you don’t need to stop fighting; you need to start fighting … the right way. When you and your spouse choose to no longer fight against each other in a personal battle but alongside one another in a spiritual war, the results are amazing as you begin to recognize your God-given purpose together. Laced with practical insights and easy-to-follow steps, our discussions will help you discover:* The number one relationship killer and how to stay away from it. * How to combat negative thinking toward your spouse. * The one key that will magnetize you to your spouse and your spouse to you.* How to win your love back when “you’ve lost that lovin’ feeling.”* Why there was a wedding crasher at the first marriage in history and how he showed up at your wedding too. We all fight. The question is, will you discover the beauty in battle? We're here to help you do just that!
Episodes
148 episodes
Three Traits Of A Good Spouse
What does love look like in practical terms? In this episode, we dive into three essential qualities every spouse needs to cultivate for a thriving marriage. Whether you’re newly engaged or married for years, these principles will help you stre...
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Episode 143
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20:59
Two Primal Questions
By the age of four, our souls begin asking two fundamental questions. This episode explores how these deep-rooted needs shape our relationships and how God speaks directly to them in Scripture. Understanding these core questions can transform y...
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Episode 142
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24:49
The Essential Element Of Love
Want your spouse to feel truly loved and deeply connected to you? There’s a simple yet powerful way to make it happen. In today’s episode, we’re uncovering the key to unlocking the most essential element of love and how you can use it to streng...
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Episode 141
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29:29
Three Types Of Conversations
Conversations can go off track when people operate in different modes. In this episode, we unpack how to recognize and respond to three types of conversations to better connect with your spouse (or anyone!). Enjoy. Join us at your Beaut...
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Episode 140
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30:01
Your University Of Relationship
Have you ever thought about how the family you grew up in shaped your approach to relationships? The way your mom, dad, siblings, or others in your family treated one another often sets the tone for how you interact with your spouse or loved on...
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Episode 139
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26:50
Five Keys To Break The Defensive Cycle
While it might seem like just an occasional bad habit, unchecked defensiveness can erode trust, prevent healthy conflict resolution, and keep you from having the deep, vulnerable conversations your relationship needs. In this episode, we’ll wal...
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Episode 138
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39:30
The Power Of One Word
Each year, we ask God to give us a word that serves as a theme for the following year. It's been a powerful tool that's strengthened us individually and drawn us together as a couple. Today, we'll show you how to come up with your own! ...
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Episode 138
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34:49
The Value Of Making Things Special
Join us as we explore the power of intentionality and the art of making moments truly meaningful. Whether you’re newlyweds or celebrating decades together, this podcast reminds you that every day can be extraordinary when you choose to make it ...
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Episode 137
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29:57
Three Pillars of Relational Awareness
The strongest couples are those who stay fully present and attentive to each other. Today, we’ll dive into what science reveals about cultivating mindfulness in your marriage to build a deeper, more meaningful connection. Let’s do this!
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Episode 136
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25:13
Three Keys To A Secure Marriage
We’re diving into neuroscience again, exploring three research-backed keys to building a secure attachment with your spouse (and kids). Join us as we unpack the science of relationships and discover the transformative power of living deeply con...
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Episode 136
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31:12
The Brain Switch
We have more brain science coming your way! Join us as we dive into the power of right-brain thinking and three keys to shift from left to right for deeper connection. Also, tune in for our announcement for the Beauty In Battle Marriage Retreat...
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Episode 135
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41:51
The Power of Flexibility
Research shows the healthiest people and the healthiest relationships are characterized by flexibility - the capacity to bend without breaking. Join us as we share our discoveries on the power of flexibility in marriage. Enjoy.
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Episode 134
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33:34
Four Types of Destructive Spouses
Today is part 2 of our deep dive into the bestselling marriage book Marriage On The Rock by Jimmy Evans. Today, we're talking about the four core needs of a wife and a husband and the four types of destructive spouses. Enjoy....
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Episode 133
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36:08
Marriage On The Rock
Join us as we dive into the four pillars of a strong marriage taken from the best-selling book "Marriage On The Rock" by Jimmy Evans. These keys are taken directly from Scripture and are pivotal if you want a thriving relationship. Enjoy. ...
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Episode 132
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28:18
Five Keys to a Good Apology
Join us for a discussion on Dr. Gary Chapman's latest book, *The Five Apology Languages*. We'll explore each of the apology languages and how they can help us navigate failures in our marriages. We’ll also touch on the topic of forgiveness. Enj...
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Episode 131
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23:38
His Needs Her Needs
Join us as we dive into Willard Harley's best-selling marriage book, His Needs Her Needs. We'll cover the five core needs of each spouse and how his findings relate to our own marriages. Enjoy!
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Episode 130
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31:12
The SAFE Way To Manage Conflict
Conflict is meant for connection. It's the opportunity to turn "me" into "we." But the key is in how we handle it. Join us as we talk about a research-backed four-part process on how to manage conflict in a way that joins us together rather tha...
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Episode 129
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37:07
Cultivating Healthy Fear In Marriage
Did you know the best marriages have a certain level of fear in the relationship? In today's episode, we dive into two types of fear and four practical ways to cultivate healthy fear so your marriage will thrive. Enjoy!
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Episode 128
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39:05
Five Ways To Find More Time To Spend With Your Spouse
In today's busy world, we must be proactive about spending time with each other. Time is our greatest treasure, and "where your treasure is, your heart will be also." Join us as we discuss five places to find more time! Enjoy
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Episode 127
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34:47
Five Approaches To Conflict
Every couple experiences conflict, and how you handle it can make or break your relationship. In today's episode, we dive into the five approaches to conflict and how to choose the right one at the right time. Enjoy!
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Episode 126
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27:27
Three Laws For Connection
Join us as we dive into a familiar story in the Bible to discover three powerful keys to a deeper connection with your spouse. Taken from Matthew 3, we're going to look at three things God did to draw His Son close to Him and how it relates to ...
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Episode 125
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30:37
Keys To Biblical Relationship Success
Join us as we share five keys from the story of Mary and Joseph to help us build strong marriages. We know them as the earthly parents of Jesus, but their lives show us powerful secrets to success in relationships. Enjoy!
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Episode 124
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29:56
Three Powerful Questions
What do you want to accomplish in your marriage? In today's episode, we'll dive into three powerful questions that will help you achieve that goal. At the end we'll throw in a fun exercise to help lock it in. Enjoy.
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Episode 123
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22:56