Beauty in Battle Podcast
Beauty in Battle is a high-energy conversation for married couples to help you energize your relationship, give you purpose, and draw you close to your spouse by turning the tension that divides you into energy that fuels you. In this podcast, Jason and Tori Benham share the stories of their relationship and the practical ways they turned conflict and quarrels into passion and purpose by leaning into their struggles rather than trying to avoid them. As a result, they discovered that fighting together drew them together. Their message is clear - you don’t need to stop fighting; you need to start fighting … the right way. When you and your spouse choose to no longer fight against each other in a personal battle but alongside one another in a spiritual war, the results are amazing as you begin to recognize your God-given purpose together. Laced with practical insights and easy-to-follow steps, our discussions will help you discover:* The number one relationship killer and how to stay away from it. * How to combat negative thinking toward your spouse. * The one key that will magnetize you to your spouse and your spouse to you.* How to win your love back when “you’ve lost that lovin’ feeling.”* Why there was a wedding crasher at the first marriage in history and how he showed up at your wedding too. We all fight. The question is, will you discover the beauty in battle? We're here to help you do just that!
Beauty in Battle Podcast
Questions For Deeper Connection
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Episode 115
Ever felt a stalemate when it came to thinking of stuff to talk about with your spouse? Today's episode will cure you of that! Join us as we dive into specific questions you can ask your spouse that will help you connect on a deep level.
And, as promised on the pod, here are a list of the questions:
Before you talk, here are some questions to ask yourself about your spouse:
- What is going on?
- What are they feeling?
- What are they thinking?
Five Questions to ask one time:
- What things do I do (or can I do) to make you feel most loved?
- What activity do we do that you cherish the most and why?
- What is something romantic I’ve done for you that you liked?
- What three things have we done in our marriage that you’re most proud of?
- What do I do that’s the biggest turn-on to you?
Five Questions to ask every week:
- On a scale of 1-10, how connected do you feel to me and why?
- How are things going between you and the kids?
- How are things going between you and your friends?
- How are you feeling overall? (“what” are you feeing?)
- What has the Lord been speaking to you?
